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Wynne only joins your party once you undertake, and are consequently locked inside, the mage tower. Wynne will join your party at this point regardless of the order that you do the quests in. The only reason she would leave your party, at the urn or otherwise, is if you do something sufficiently evil that she finds 'distateful', but she generally gives some warning of her dissent first.